Good guys finish last

alrighty, so this one is for about the guys who feel like they cant get a girl no matter how nice they are


so this is kinda a bit of a change for me... ok a big change, after last night (which i spent with a very smart kid) i realized that it's alright that i'm not on the top of people's lists to date. she told me that there are 2 kinds of guys. dating guys, and marrying guys. as u can probably guess the dating guys get all the girls all the time cuz they are the kind of guys that girls wanna be with. uhhhh yea she said more about them, but u can just ask me about that if u want. the marrying guys are the guys who girls are kinda scared of going out with cause breaking up with them is gonna be 10 times harder then breaking up with the other type.see they know that the other type is prolly gonna screw up again, so as soon as they dont wanna be with them anymore, they'll bring up everything the guy did to hurt them and it becomes easier to leave them. so all of the marrying kinda guys basically get screwed cuz they get closer to girls then even thier boyfriends do, but the girl is too scared to be with them. now for my disclaimer: that's not a bad thing girls, i mean if ur not ready to stop dating then dont stop. but for the guys... just wait, yea it sucks and it'll prolly stay te same way for a looooong time, but some day soon enough those girls will want a deeper relationship, and guess who is thier logical choice? you.. the dude who's been there everytime she cried, didn't stop talking to her after she told u the one thing that she hides from every1 else, and always knew how to make her feel better. yea... and to u girls... please dont get married before u feel like that. it'll screw u over and that guy who was close to u. ummm yea that' pretty much all i have to say. like i said she's a smart girl...

so prety much even though it really sucks, guys, just keep going, even if it's not the one you were hoping for who comes into ur life a the right time, some1 will... that's all u gota know

i cant sleep nd i've been waiting to write these down so here goes....

"there are only 2 things that can keep us from success, our mind and our bodies. either we dont thin we can do soething or we give out bfore we compete the task."
--There are two things that can keep you from reaching your complete potential, your mind and your physical ability. I have worked my body to exhaustion so that I am the only one who can stop me.


-If you knew you couldn't fail, what would u attempt?


What is it that keeps us omming back? We try, we fail, we start again. Is it because we are scaed of ending with a failure? Or is there more to it? Is it like an addiction? Or is it a real need? And why do we settle for what we dont want? If we want an apple, we should reach to the top of the tree. Get what we want. It's soo much better.
-To every1 who is stuck with a bad apple, drop it and start loking for that best one.

sometimes

Current mood: envious

the world bends u over and really screws u over, and it usually happends right when ur most proud of urself. like when u think u've got things planned out, something comes at u from even farther out then left feild... like from the stands or somthing... pegs u in the head and knocks u out, then someone else usually gets to steal ur thunder (continung with the baseball analogy) after it bouces of ur head some other guy grabs the ball and makes the big play and ends up living happily ever after while u roll around in the dirt trying to get back on ur feet again , but u'll always feel that ball hitting u on the head over and over.

my advice

soooooo basically i was talking to some girls here at Mines tha's i've gotten to know pretty well and i learned something. most girls wanna be aproched. yea guys that means u gotta man up and grow some balls, but dont try too many times. anyways i was askng about a friend of mine who has a chance with one of these girls and doesn't really know it. she told me that pretty much every guy has a chance with pretty much every girl..... ok for all the gujys reading this i'm gonna repeat that with some emphises.... almost EVERY guy has a CHANCE with almost EVERY GIRL.yea that means that if you present it all right, you have a good chance at getting with the girl u've always wanted. so go for it!

been awhile... update and stuff

sooooo it's been over a month since i left oregon and i have to admit that as much as i love it here, oregon is pretty amazing and i cant wait to come back. Tonight I took my first exam.... EEWWWWWW... calc wasn't ever fun, but now I dont like exams because of calc.... and I said I was gonna write a blog on life philosophies so here's my littlle snipit on that:

so below are the sweet philosophies that i've gotten, basicly as the all say that life goes on and pretty much it sucks, but you gotta continue cuz that's what we do, and while we're at it, we might as well try to make something of it and try to be remembered. but if we fail dont worry :-p

take it for what it's worth:
You live, you learn (somethimes) and a lucky few get to make a difference in the world before we all die

Van wilder: dont take life too seriously You'll never get out alive

Life is a %#!+ sandwitch. And you have to take a big bite out of it every day. But the more bread you have, the less %#!+ you have to take.

soooo yea this really isn't all that great of a blog but w/e at least i write.... well i'll talk to u all later

PEACE

Aloha dreams

When I 5 I used to ride and play with the kids next door,
then our parents came to take us away and drag us off to school.
Now I'm done an' it feels pretty fun cuz I love to party and chiill,
but I'm about to go and I wish time went slow cause I got a check box to fill.

See I have this past that seems to last only when I'm about to go through,
I'm always late cuz I stop to debate every action that I'm about to go do.
I was in her position, it felt like mass competition, but I got shoulderd and burned.
I want her to win, but I can't give in, cause it would show that I just hadn't learned.

So I'll keep it inside and it will hide, maybe for a year or two,
untill we have the time and and I gotta dime for all the stuff that we'd do.
I'll put on an act and make it look like a fact by pretending that everything's fine,
But in my hart you have a great part, and i'll fight 'till victory's mine!

Save Tonight

Current mood: wishin' and thinkin'

Go on and close the curtains
cause all we need is candle light
You and me and a bottle of wine
going to hold you tonight
Well we know I'm going away
and how I wish, I wish it weren't so
So take this wine and drink with me
let's delay our misery

Save tonight
and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow
tomorrow I'll be gone

Save tonight
and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow
tomorrow I'll be gone

There's a log on the fire
and it burns like me for you
Tomorrow comes with one desire
to take me away it's true
It ain't easy to say goodbye
darling please don't start to cry
Cause girl you know I've got to go, oh
Lord I wish it wasn't so

Save tonight
and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow
tomorrow I'll be gone

Save tonight
and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow
tomorrow I'll be gone

Tomorrow comes to take me away
I wish that I, that I could stay
Girl you know I've got to go, oh
Lord I wish it wasn't so

Save tonight
and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow
tomorrow I'll be gone

Save tonight
and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow
tomorrow I'll be gone

Save tonight
and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow
tomorrow I'll be gone

Save tonight
and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow
tomorrow I'll be gone
tomorrow I'll be gone
tomorrow I'll be gone
tomorrow I'll be gone
tomorrow I'll be gone

Save tonight
Save tonight
Save tonight
Save tonight


the essence of how i feel right there, i've been ready to get out of here forever, i guess i just imagined every1 comming with me. the Atari's got it right when they sang In This Diary: "here in this diary i write you visions of my summer. it was the best i ever had....and that unspoken feeling of knowing that right now is all that matters.... i guess when it comes down to it, being grown up isn't half as fun as growing up" I'm finding out quickly now that i'm leaving and all this fun i've been having is about to change, i'll still have fun, and i'll prolly have more fun, but i'll be away from most every1 i want to be with right now. but in the wise words of bruse hornsby "That's just the way it is"

a time for goodbyes

man, it seems like i've known some ppl forever, and i've had plenty of time to hang out with them and all, but i dont think i'll ever have enough time to say goodbye to every1. so, for all of u who i wont have a chance to spend some time with, i'm sorry, and it's not like i forgot about u. i hate this, i mean it's not like i'll never be back around, but it possible i wont ever see u again.

Call me before i leave. mk?

it's been a while

Current mood: Life's waiting to begin...

good song...but, umm life update. getting ready to leave this place called home and start a new life in Golden Colorado. me and my room mate are pretty stoked about it. not the leaving home part, but the starting a new life. i got s week left untill crunch time and basicly then i'll be uber-stressed as i get ready to go, so i may need a few calls to give me a break from the stress. ummm o i went on a few bike rides recently, put up a chin up bar in my basement and dug out my make-shift ab slide. so yea, been working out, 2 hour bike rides relive alot of tention and are really fun when u have no idea where ur going. oh and call me up and let me know if u wanna tag along, i'd love company. ahh what else.... well i guess that's it.


but for all of u who love my words of wisdom here goes. pretty much i have had one of the best summers of my life, i've found the older u get the more fun life gets (untill ur old and become a workaholic, but i'll try to never tlet that happen to me) and this summer i've done alot of things i kinda regret, and i kinda regret not doing alot of things. so i basicly have a delima, but it feels alot better to regret doing something then to regret not doing something.
The Why: If you regret doing something it means that u took advantage of a situation, but it didn't turn out as good as u wanted it to. altho if u dont do something and look back on that time and really regret not doing it, you should have done it. u only live once and every second that passes u cannot ever recover (ummm, but if u ever do figure out a way to recover those seconds let me know). so yea in the great words of nike advertising:

Just Do It

;)